Think of me as part of your family’s board of essential personnel. Just as elite households retain financial strategists or academic tutors, a Family Strategist brings neuroscience-based expertise to the home. My work is proactive, preventative, and transformational — helping households shift dynamics at the root, not just manage behavior on the surface.

Most parenting frameworks are behavior-management scripts, whereas this assumes the problem is the household system. Therapy often looks backward. Family Strategy is forward-moving and results-oriented. I help you rewire the nervous system patterns that shape your household so your children grow capable, resilient, and confident. And you will have a new perspective on life, relationships and purpose.

No. While I often start with the parent who sets the emotional tone of the household (I call this person the head regulator), this work applies to fathers, partners, and any household structure. Even a household of one benefits from mastering these principles.

Both. Many families come to me already in crisis. Others invest preventatively, the same way they would in health, education, or financial planning. Either way, the goal is the same: end generational cycles and build a household culture that sustains itself.

“Detached” doesn’t mean distant or cold. It means clarity. It’s the opposite of over-involvement. Detachment is knowing where you end and your child begins — guiding without micromanaging, loving without absorbing their chaos, leading without burning yourself out.

Because it is. This isn’t a volume model. My work requires depth and precision. I cap the number of families I take on, and each engagement is custom. Like retaining a private physician or crisis strategist, this is a preventative investment in your household’s future.

This is rare work. The investment reflects both the exclusivity and the generational ROI. I don’t position this work around cost. I care deeply about my work and I am very much invested in my clients' success. Families who are ready understand that the work is invaluable. . This is not a service you can outsource, and it’s not available anywhere else. This is a complete shift in how households functions — a transformation that transcends and truly is life changing. That makes the investment small compared to the cost of doing nothing.

Yes. My digital community and courses provide scalable access to my frameworks. The Detached Parent book is the best place to start, and the membership offers ongoing resources at accessible tiers.

Perfect. Detached Parent is not a one-size-fits-all playbook. It’s a neuroscience-based framework applied to your unique dynamics. Every household has patterns to rewire; we start with yours.

If your application is aligned, you’ll be invited to a 1:1 call — not a discovery call, but a decision point.
If the container is the right fit, onboarding begins within 48 hours if the space allots. Otherwise, there is a waitlist. And yes, it is worth the wait.

If you're not ready, start with the book or join the community. But if you're circling back to this page again and again — please do apply. I'd love to help!